Hey mate, yeah it usually is! I'll take your word for it with the BBCs, I'm straight. Thats why I buy the fantasy dildos instead of the cock ones, although I have to admit some of the cocks are pretty nice. Those black guys in some of the pornos have massivfe dicks on them. Love my hole being stretched open wide. This dildo is brutal. Furthest I've made it down is about 2" from the bottom and I wasn't filming! getting over the middle bit is hard it gets so wide